The Fragility of Happiness
We know leaning into fear and vulnerability can be uncomfortable, but do we talk enough about how the fragility of happiness can make it equally difficult to relax into joy?
Securely Safe? Or Safely Secure?
Some words are interchangeable - clever smart, accurate correct, rest relax - but 'security' and 'safety' aren't two of them.
Like Lizzo Says…
There’s a sense that "the truth" is where we all want to get to, that it’s the essence of all that is good, the pinnacle, the be all and end all.
The Struggle Is Really Real
Grief, anxiety, depression - the struggle is really real.
Coming Out Better Not Bitter
Let’s not sugarcoat it - life is an absolute f*cker sometimes. So how do we make sure we don’t become jaded, cynical and downright bitter?
Body Talking
If you’re here to read about body talking of the sexual variety, this ain’t that. Instead I’m talking about the “what is my body trying to tell me?” variety. Specifically when it comes to gut feelings, storing stress and holding [...]
Why Freezing My Eggs Has Made Me Feel A Certain Way About Men
And “what kinda way is that?” you might ask. Well it ain’t good. Before anyone thinks this is shaping up to be a man bashing piece, full disclosure: I don't hate men. BUT.
Just Stick It In Me
...I say to myself under my breath twice a day now. Since my first blog post when I talked about my thinking around maybe freezing my eggs, a lot has happened. I made the decision to do it, I spent [...]
Who Are You Calling Resilient?
I know, it sounds like a compliment doesn’t it? You’re so resilient! Your resilience is inspiring! You came back so resiliently. You know what? Maybe I don’t want to be resilient
Life Is Messy As Hell
Sharing our stories always feels fragile. It always feels scary and it always feels uncertain. But I’m reminded every time I do it, why I do it. Because life is messy as hell
When The Time Is Now
I talk and write a lot about owning our own timelines in life and eschewing society’s prescribed milestones for us. But is it sometimes unavoidable? Because… biology.
Lou Who? Turns One!
Celebrating a year since the launch of Lou Who? and all those who have supported the book, and me, in that time!