Body Talking
If you’re here to read about body talking of the sexual variety, this ain’t that. Instead I’m talking about the “what is my body trying to tell me?” variety. Specifically when it comes to gut feelings, storing stress and holding [...]
Why Freezing My Eggs Has Made Me Feel A Certain Way About Men
And “what kinda way is that?” you might ask. Well it ain’t good. Before anyone thinks this is shaping up to be a man bashing piece, full disclosure: I don't hate men. BUT.
Just Stick It In Me
...I say to myself under my breath twice a day now. Since my first blog post when I talked about my thinking around maybe freezing my eggs, a lot has happened. I made the decision to do it, I spent [...]
Who Are You Calling Resilient?
I know, it sounds like a compliment doesn’t it? You’re so resilient! Your resilience is inspiring! You came back so resiliently. You know what? Maybe I don’t want to be resilient
Life Is Messy As Hell
Sharing our stories always feels fragile. It always feels scary and it always feels uncertain. But I’m reminded every time I do it, why I do it. Because life is messy as hell
When The Time Is Now
I talk and write a lot about owning our own timelines in life and eschewing society’s prescribed milestones for us. But is it sometimes unavoidable? Because… biology.
Lou Who? Turns One!
Celebrating a year since the launch of Lou Who? and all those who have supported the book, and me, in that time!
The Green Juice of Breakups
Let’s be honest, breakups are shit but do they always have to be rage-filled, expletive-laden gong shows?
That Old Line About Healing
What is it they say about healing? That it isn’t linear. That it’s messy and chaotic, and oftentimes we have to normalise living through it, not just getting through it.
Media Feature – The Vancouver Sun
Self publishing is a growing industry, a growing trend, a growing access point for independent authors like me
How Do You Breakup With Your Friends?
Was the title alarming? Are my friends going to be angrily texting me in 3, 2, 1…? Maybe “breakup with” is the wrong term. Maybe it’s more a question of how do we assess friendships in the same way we [...]
Checking Boxes or Packing Boxes?
Is it just me, or does life seem to either have us checking those standard life milestone boxes, or packing boxes to build a whole new life of our own doing? Like I did almost eight years ago when I [...]