Coming Out Better Not Bitter
Let’s not sugarcoat it - life is an absolute f*cker sometimes. So how do we make sure we don’t become jaded, cynical and downright bitter?
Let’s not sugarcoat it - life is an absolute f*cker sometimes. So how do we make sure we don’t become jaded, cynical and downright bitter?
If you’re here to read about body talking of the sexual variety, this ain’t that. Instead I’m talking about the “what is my body trying to tell me?” variety. Specifically when it comes to gut feelings, storing stress and holding [...]
And “what kinda way is that?” you might ask. Well it ain’t good. Before anyone thinks this is shaping up to be a man bashing piece, full disclosure: I don't hate men. BUT.
...I say to myself under my breath twice a day now. Since my first blog post when I talked about my thinking around maybe freezing my eggs, a lot has happened. I made the decision to do it, I spent [...]
I know, it sounds like a compliment doesn’t it? You’re so resilient! Your resilience is inspiring! You came back so resiliently. You know what? Maybe I don’t want to be resilient
Sharing our stories always feels fragile. It always feels scary and it always feels uncertain. But I’m reminded every time I do it, why I do it. Because life is messy as hell
I talk and write a lot about owning our own timelines in life and eschewing society’s prescribed milestones for us. But is it sometimes unavoidable? Because… biology.
Celebrating a year since the launch of Lou Who? and all those who have supported the book, and me, in that time!
Let’s be honest, breakups are shit but do they always have to be rage-filled, expletive-laden gong shows?
What is it they say about healing? That it isn’t linear. That it’s messy and chaotic, and oftentimes we have to normalise living through it, not just getting through it.
Self publishing is a growing industry, a growing trend, a growing access point for independent authors like me
Was the title alarming? Are my friends going to be angrily texting me in 3, 2, 1…? Maybe “breakup with” is the wrong term. Maybe it’s more a question of how do we assess friendships in the same way we [...]