Securely Safe? Or Safely Secure?
Some words are interchangeable - clever smart, accurate correct, rest relax - but 'security' and 'safety' aren't two of them.
The Struggle Is Really Real
Grief, anxiety, depression - the struggle is really real.
Coming Out Better Not Bitter
Let’s not sugarcoat it - life is an absolute f*cker sometimes. So how do we make sure we don’t become jaded, cynical and downright bitter?
Why Freezing My Eggs Has Made Me Feel A Certain Way About Men
And “what kinda way is that?” you might ask. Well it ain’t good. Before anyone thinks this is shaping up to be a man bashing piece, full disclosure: I don't hate men. BUT.
Just Stick It In Me
...I say to myself under my breath twice a day now. Since my first blog post when I talked about my thinking around maybe freezing my eggs, a lot has happened. I made the decision to do it, I spent [...]
Life Is Messy As Hell
Sharing our stories always feels fragile. It always feels scary and it always feels uncertain. But I’m reminded every time I do it, why I do it. Because life is messy as hell
When The Time Is Now
I talk and write a lot about owning our own timelines in life and eschewing society’s prescribed milestones for us. But is it sometimes unavoidable? Because… biology.
Checking Boxes or Packing Boxes?
Is it just me, or does life seem to either have us checking those standard life milestone boxes, or packing boxes to build a whole new life of our own doing? Like I did almost eight years ago when I [...]
What are we doing here?
I have asked myself this question many times - like when I was trying to salvage my marriage for the third time, or while on many questionable dates, and sometimes even just in the supermarket aisle trying to remember what [...]