Divorced & Dating at 30 was my first blog, my first foray into writing publicly, albeit anonymously at the time. It was written when men, & alcohol, were aplenty in my life.These stories are of a different time of my life, a time when I was still unsure of who I was and how to navigate the world of dating.
There's a few more tales to tell from this era of my life and I'll get to them one day but these stories are proof to me of how far I've come, although I'm still not sure I've figured out the world of dating...
Grief, anxiety, depression - the struggle is really real. It’s like lying on the shoreline and the waves just keep coming, barrelling over you, and sometimes you just manage to keep your head above the whitewash, but other times you’re [...]
If you’re here to read about body talking of the sexual variety, this ain’t that. Instead I’m talking about the “what is my body trying to tell me?” variety. Specifically when it comes to gut feelings, storing stress and holding [...]
I know, it sounds like a compliment doesn’t it? You’re so resilient! Your resilience is inspiring! You came back so resiliently. You know what? Maybe I don’t want to be resilient
What is it they say about healing? That it isn’t linear. That it’s messy and chaotic, and oftentimes we have to normalise living through it, not just getting through it.
Is it just me, or does life seem to either have us checking those standard life milestone boxes, or packing boxes to build a whole new life of our own doing? Like I did almost eight years ago when I [...]
I have asked myself this question many times - like when I was trying to salvage my marriage for the third time, or while on many questionable dates, and sometimes even just in the supermarket aisle trying to remember what [...]
